A global resource hub for women in ministry
Free teaching, real gatherings, and women who actually understand ministry life. Wherever you are in it, you're welcome here.
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Tell us where you are, and we'll point you to what serves you best.
Teaching, downloadables, and videos to help you lead and stay rooted.
Browse the resource library →Conferences, tea parties, and retreats across the U.S., U.K., and Nigeria.
See upcoming events →Honest conversation with women who understand ministry life, organized around what you carry.
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See partnership and giving →The story behind Dear Pastor's Wife and the woman who started it.
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A growing, searchable library of teaching, downloadables, and videos, both current and archived, so you can find help the moment you need it.
Featured devotional · 30 days
Breaking the Cycle of Shame
Make time for Scripture, prayer and reflection. A daily journey to rediscover your worth in God, created for women in ministry.
62-page digital devotional
Explore the devotionalBiblical wisdom and honest encouragement for women in ministry life.
Get it on Amazon →New teaching, Q&A, and real talk for ministry women every week.
Watch on YouTube →Events
Where we're gathering this year, across the U.S., the U.K., and Nigeria. Pick the date and place that fit your season, and bring a friend.
The Book
Part memoir, part handbook. May's honest account of more than twenty years of ministry life, written so that no pastor's wife would feel she's walking it alone.
The fishbowl, balancing family and church, finding your own identity in ministry. May writes about it plainly, from experience, with grace and truth.
Rooted in Scripture and Spirit-led wisdom
Real solutions for daily ministry challenges
Written from experience, heart to heart
Community
A calm, topic-based space where women in ministry can ask, share, and encourage one another.
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Our library includes free encouragement and resources alongside featured books. Visit each resource for access or availability details. The heart of DPW is to serve first.
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